Simple Ways to Keep Christ at the Center of Your Homemaking
“The ordinary acts we practice every day at home are of more important to the…
The clock reads 3 AM, and here I am, rocking my fussy baby for what feels like the hundredth time tonight. The house is quiet except for the gentle creaking of the rocking chair and my whispered prayers. “Lord, give me strength. Give me patience. Help me trust Your plan in this season.”
Sound familiar? As mothers, we often find ourselves in these raw, vulnerable moments where our faith meets the beautiful chaos of motherhood. According to a recent parenting survey, 78% of mothers report feeling overwhelmed at least once a week. Yet, in these challenging moments, there’s an invitation to experience something profound: a deeper trust in God’s presence and purpose for our lives.
I’ve spent the last fifteen years walking alongside mothers as a friend and mentor, and I’ve witnessed firsthand how trusting God can transform the most challenging seasons of motherhood into periods of extraordinary growth and joy. In this comprehensive guide, we’ll explore practical ways to strengthen your faith while navigating the daily adventures (and yes, sometimes misadventures!) of mothering.
“She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future.”
Proverbs 31:25
The journey of motherhood begins with understanding that God sees you in every diaper change, every sleepless night, and every moment of doubt. In Scripture, we find countless examples of mothers who faced their own challenges while learning to trust God. From Hannah’s fervent prayers for a child to Mary’s brave acceptance of God’s unexpected plan, these stories remind us that motherhood has always been a path where faith meets daily life.
One of the most beautiful revelations in my own motherhood journey came when I realized that God doesn’t just tolerate the chaos of parenting…He sanctifies it. Those moments when you’re wiping tiny faces and folding endless laundry? They’re holy ground. Your daily acts of service mirrors God’s own nurturing heart, even when they feel mundane or overwhelming.
Think about it: God chose to enter our world as a baby, completely dependent on a mother’s care. This profound truth elevates every aspect of motherhood, showing us that these daily tasks aren’t just necessary, but they’re sacred work that reflects God’s own character of nurture and care.
“When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you.”
Isaiah 43:2
Sometimes the most holy moments happen between the spilled milk and bedtime stories.
Let’s be honest, finding quiet time with God when you’re in the thick of motherhood can feel like trying to catch water with a fork! In fact my baby lies here asleep next to me as I ever so quietly write this post, trying not to wake her until I finish. But what if I told you that peace isn’t found in the absence of chaos or mishaps, but in the presence of God right in the middle of it?
I remember one particularly challenging day when my toddler had emptied an entire box of cereal on the floor while I was changing the baby’s diaper. In that moment of frustration, I felt God gently remind me that He’s not waiting for me in some perfectly quiet, clean space, He’s right there with me in the mess. This realization changed everything about how I approached my daily chaos.
The key is learning to redefine what connection with God looks like in this season. Maybe it’s praying while loading the dishwasher, listening to worship music during carpool, or turning middle-of-the-night feedings into quiet moments of thanksgiving. God meets us exactly where we are, Cheerios on the floor and all.
“Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.”
Proverbs 3:5
In every season of motherhood, God’s faithfulness remains our constant anchor.
One of the most challenging aspects of motherhood is how quickly everything changes. Just when you think you’ve got a handle on one season, your children enter a new phase with fresh challenges. I’ve learned that trusting God looks different in each season, but His faithfulness remains constant.
I remember the first and only night thus far, that my son slept away from us for a night while we were in labor with my second child. I was a bundle of anxiety about it, but God used that season to teach me about releasing control and trusting His care for my children extends beyond my sight. Sometimes, trusting God means taking that deep breath and letting your little ones step into their own adventures, knowing He goes with them.
Each season brings its own invitation to trust: during pregnancy, we trust God with our growing baby; in the newborn phase, we trust Him for strength; with teenagers, we trust His guidance as we navigate new territories. The key is recognizing that God’s presence isn’t limited to the “big” moments. He’s equally faithful in the everyday decisions about screen time, friendship struggles, and homework battles.
“But as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.”
Joshua 24:15
A faith-filled home isn’t built in grand moments, but in thousands of small, faithful choices.
You don’t need Pinterest-perfect Bible study setups or elaborate prayer stations to create a faith-filled home. Sometimes the most impactful spiritual moments happen during carpool conversations or while making PB&J sandwiches. The goal isn’t perfection, it’s presence.
I’ve found that the most effective way to build faith into our home is through authenticity. When my children see me turning to God in both celebration and struggle, they learn that faith is real and relevant. This might look like praying together when we hear sirens, celebrating answered prayers with a special dessert, or openly discussing how God helps us when we’re afraid.
The beauty of building a faith-filled home is that it happens one small choice at a time. It’s in the way we respond to spilled milk with patience, how we point out God’s creativity in a sunset, or pause to pray when we hear about a friend in need. These consistent, small moments create the foundation of lasting faith.
“Whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.”
1 Corinthians 10:31
Every moment can become holy ground when we invite God into our ordinary days.
Who says sacred moments can only happen in church? Some of my most profound encounters with God have happened while folding laundry or during late-night feedings. The key is learning to recognize His presence in these seemingly ordinary moments.
Consider the simple act of bedtime routines. Beyond just getting children to sleep, these moments can become sacred spaces for connection, both with our children and with God. A simple prayer, a moment of gratitude, or even just lying quietly together can become holy ground. I’ve had some of the deepest spiritual conversations with my children during these tucked-away evening moments.
Remember, creating sacred moments isn’t about adding more to your already full plate. It’s about seeing the holy in what you’re already doing. That morning rush to get everyone out the door for church? It can become a moment to practice patience and trust. Those endless dishes? An opportunity for quiet prayer and reflection.
“Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.”
Matthew 11:28
Your weakness is just an invitation for His strength to shine through.
Let’s be real, sometimes motherhood feels like trying to carry a mountain. The weight of responsibility, the constant decisions, the physical and emotional demands can become overwhelming. In these moments, trusting God isn’t just a nice idea, but absolutely essential for survival.
I remember one particularly challenging season when everything felt too heavy. The baby wasn’t sleeping, my older child was not interested in his daily homeschool lessons, and I felt like I was failing at everything. It was in this place of complete exhaustion that I experienced God’s strength in a new way. Sometimes, trusting God means simply admitting we can’t do it all on our own, and that’s okay.
The Bible tells us to cast our cares upon Him because He cares for us (1 Peter 5:7). This isn’t just a nice verse for wall art, it’s a lifeline for overwhelmed mothers. It means we can bring Him our worries about our children’s futures, our fears about our adequacy as mothers, and our exhaustion from the daily grind.
“For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.”
Matthew 18:20
We rise by lifting others. Your motherhood journey was never meant to be walked alone.
Motherhood was never meant to be a solo journey. Just as the early church thrived through community, we need each other to grow and thrive in our motherhood journey. Some of my deepest growth in trusting God has come through the encouragement and example of other mothers.
Building community doesn’t always look like formal mom groups or Bible studies (though these can be wonderful!). Sometimes it’s as simple as a text thread with other moms who understand your struggles and celebrate your victories. It’s having someone who can pray with you during a tough day or remind you of God’s faithfulness when you’re feeling discouraged.
Remember that story in Exodus where Aaron and Hur held up Moses’ arms during battle? That’s what community looks like in motherhood…supporting each other when we’re too tired to hold our own arms up, pointing each other back to God’s truth when we’re overwhelmed by lies.
“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”
Philippians 4:13
Trust the Author of your story. He’s writing beautiful chapters through your motherhood journey.
The journey of trusting God in motherhood is both challenging and beautiful. It’s a daily choice to believe that God is present in every moment, from the tantrum-filled toddler years to the emotional teenage seasons. As we learn to trust Him more deeply, we discover that He isn’t just helping us survive motherhood, He’s using it to transform us.
Remember, dear mama, that God chose you specifically for your children. He sees every effort, knows every struggle, and is walking alongside you every step of the way. Your willingness to trust Him, even in the chaos, is teaching your children one of life’s most valuable lessons: that God is trustworthy and present in every season.
Thank you for joining me on this exploration of trusting God in motherhood. As you return to your daily routines, my prayer is that you’ll find Him in new ways, in the chaos and the calm, in the ordinary and the extraordinary moments of your motherhood journey.
